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Harsh Truths About Relationships

 Pay attention to these things 1. ALL boyfriends will NOT leave if sex is taken out of the relationship. 2. Most girlfriends will leave if money is taken out of the relationship. 3. Some parents won't approve of relationships across different castes. 4. The person who says "I can't live without you" will eventually be fine without you. 5. Attractive women often want to marry wealthy men. 6. Wealthy men often treat love like a game. 7. People in love might ignore this advice until they face these issues themselves.
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10 Laws that will put you ahead of 99% of people

Observe these laws and you will be ahead of the game. 1. Don’t trust friends too much; sometimes enemies can help you more. 2. Speak less than you have to. 3. Don’t try to look too perfect. 4. Learn when is the right time to act. 5. Show what you can do instead of just arguing. 6. When you win, know when to stop – don’t go overboard. 7. Don’t hide away to feel safe – being alone can be risky. 8. Sometimes being away can make people respect you more. 9. Focus your efforts on what matters most. 10. Think your own way but act like others do.

Hard facts about the Work Place

 1. Your boss is not your friend. Regardless of how close you both are, learn to set PROFESSIONAL boundaries. 2. Walls have ears. Be careful who you confide in at work. A listening ear could also be a flippant mouth. 3. Your employer is now concerned about RESULTS. How you get the JOB done is up to you. No excuses. 4. There is always that one person/ group of persons feeding the boss with happenings in the office. Some employees' briefs go beyond the official ( except in work cultures where such act is expressly frowned upon). Be guided. 5. When you get withdrawn from PROJECTS or someone is asked to understudy you, or you get demoted without cogent reason(s), that may be a cue that you'd soon be shown the exit door. 6. As much as you can, keep your private life away from COLLEAGUES. You might be under INVESTIGATION for achieving some personal great feat without you even knowing. 7. Some of your colleagues may not even like you, it could be the way you LOOK, DRESS, SPEAK, your c...

The Paradox of Life

Here are 13 paradoxes of life.   1. The harder you chase something, the more it slips away. 2. If you don't care about others, you'll end up not caring about yourself. 3. Focusing on the negative can blind you to the positive. 4. Worrying about problems can disconnect you from the solutions. 5. When you distrust something, it starts to seem even more untrustworthy. 6. The more you learn, the more you realize how little you know. 7. Relying on others for completeness can make you feel incomplete within yourself. 8. Fear of failure can actually lead to failure. 9. True control comes from knowing when to let go. 10. Trying too hard to impress others can have the opposite effect. 11. When something's easily available, it often loses its appeal. 12. The one thing you can count on is that nothing's certain. 13. Change is the only constant in life. 14. Detachment saves you from a lot of bullshit 15. Contentment saves you from resentment

12 LIFE LESSONS

 Life is a journey filled with experiences, some joyful, others challenging, each one offering an opportunity to learn, grow, and evolve. Along the way, we gather wisdom not just from our successes, but also from what we deem failures, relationships, and quiet reflections. The following life lessons serve as gentle reminders and guiding principles that can help navigate life with more clarity, purpose, and peace. Failure is not the opposite of success — it's part of it. Mistakes teach more than easy wins ever will. Discomfort means you’re growing. Growth happens when you stretch beyond the familiar. Discipline beats motivation. Motivation is fleeting. Discipline builds results. Wake up early and always see the beautiful rising sun. Meditate to enjoy the essence of enjoying the present. Don't overthink about the future. Everything happens for a reason. Never fear, because there is nothing to fear. Visualise your dream lifestyle every day. Strongly believe you will live that life...

As I get Old

 They told us it was just a number, but the reality is that age is more than just a number. It marks a significant change in our bodies and lifestyles. Some get wise as they age, whilst foolishness abounds in others. As I get older, I have come to realise several things. 1. Simplicity wins. As you age, you realise that the minimalistic principle is the best. You crave simple things in life, provided that you can meet your needs. 2. Friends, even the close ones, will not stay in your life forever. The energy diminishes as you age. 3. The most important relationship is not the one you have with your children or spouse, but with yourself. 4. Nobody cares about your hard work, but the results. 5. Heartache and failure are normal. 6. Truthfulness becomes a habit 7. Quality over quantity. 8. The difference between 20 and 40 is not 20. Time really flies when you are 20 years. 9. Petite always wins. So, when choosing your partner, get yourself a beautiful petite one. 10. December is not as...

16 Mind Hacks of Smart people

Ever wondered why you would find two people, and the most successful of them was not good in school? The difference is street smartness. These people have understood that life is a game, and human psychology has the upper hand in these streets. Master the art of influence, understand manipulation techniques, and navigate street life like a pro. Here are ten dark psychology tricks and mind hacks that make you conquer the streets. 1. Always trust your gut. Never ignore your intuition if something feels wrong. 2. The use of first names increases intimacy and connection. Nobody cares about your surname unless it has some political significance. 3. When negotiating, ask open-ended questions. This encourages detailed answers. 4. Do not die in your own cocoon. Ask for a favour. It increases your likability. 5. Confront your fears. Understand that you did not have it before, so you have nothing to lose but something to gain. 6. Even if you do not like your dental structure, just force a smile....

Are The Young People Justified to Protest?

It has always been the case in many political rallies and manifestos. It all started as a slogan to woo votes from the under-35s, which they have always found a way to do. In the past, you could lie to people because social media was still in its infancy. Information could not be easily accessed and stored, except by the mainstream media stations. They would commit all the atrocities and get away with them because they dictated what should appear in the mainstream media. In fact, it was only KBC that had the outright privilege of doing the recordings, and everyone depended on this government media house and its affiliated vernacular stations for news. Our parents worshipped the state and feared to criticise the state for any wrongdoing. The few who raised their voices risked their lives, and most of them ended up in torture chambers.  The likes of Raila Amollo Odinga, Achieng Oneko, Charles Rubia, and Paul Muite, among others, were young when they fought for the second liberation. ...

Are You a Man Under 30 Years? Here are 9-Under-30-Years Commandments

9 Advices to a Man Under 30 Years  Growing up, I never had the privilege to get advice from a 30-year-old man on what awaited me when I hit the third floor. I guess growing up with a career dad did not do me all the good but he did his part by ensuring that we had a comfortable life. I therefore had to figure things out myself after getting to 30 years old. Here are my lessons that might also help you. 1. Until you have defined what life is, never commit to a woman. 2. Do not take long before you move out of your parents' house. Even as you do this, always be ready to go back when things do not work out, because at some point in life, you will need to rethink and restrategise. 3. If you have an income in your 20s, use that money to build yourself. If you are into land, buy as much as you can. I always tell my students, if at any point in life, you have the resources but do not know where to invest, just go and buy a piece of land.  4. Do not spend more than two years in a job ...

Gen Zs Shouldn't Tolerate

  As a millennial, I now know what they did to us, and probably what they did to our parents so that they could do whatever they deemed fit. Thank goodness, we had a chance to raise our young siblings and shield them from the Gen X and baby boomers syndrome that made Moi and the other dictatorial leaders have a field day. Kibaki never did leaders with Moi-esque any good by giving us free education and improved infrastructure that made access to information easy. We are at a time when information is everywhere. In such times, Gen Zs should never allow the normalisation of: 1. Being threatened. Because it is through such that fear is instilled. As young kids, they never allowed us to ask questions. Punishment was like a death sentence, all in the name of "instilling discipline." 2. Be looked down upon. Always know your value, and do not let any person demean you. 3. Suppression: If something does not work well with you, just say it. The worst they can do to you is what you have...