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Harsh Truths About Relationships

 Pay attention to these things 1. ALL boyfriends will NOT leave if sex is taken out of the relationship. 2. Most girlfriends will leave if money is taken out of the relationship. 3. Some parents won't approve of relationships across different castes. 4. The person who says "I can't live without you" will eventually be fine without you. 5. Attractive women often want to marry wealthy men. 6. Wealthy men often treat love like a game. 7. People in love might ignore this advice until they face these issues themselves.

12 LIFE LESSONS

 Life is a journey filled with experiences, some joyful, others challenging, each one offering an opportunity to learn, grow, and evolve. Along the way, we gather wisdom not just from our successes, but also from what we deem failures, relationships, and quiet reflections. The following life lessons serve as gentle reminders and guiding principles that can help navigate life with more clarity, purpose, and peace.

Failure is not the opposite of success — it's part of it.

  1. Mistakes teach more than easy wins ever will.
  2. Discomfort means you’re growing.
  3. Growth happens when you stretch beyond the familiar.
  4. Discipline beats motivation.
  5. Motivation is fleeting. Discipline builds results.
  6. Wake up early and always see the beautiful rising sun.
  7. Meditate to enjoy the essence of enjoying the present.
  8. Don't overthink about the future. Everything happens for a reason.
  9. Never fear, because there is nothing to fear.
  10. Visualise your dream lifestyle every day.
  11. Strongly believe you will live that lifestyle for sure.
  12. Listen more and speak less.
  13. The pain and worry you are facing now will fade away.
  14. Be you. Live by your values.
  15. Never expect anything. It's the gateway to a happy life.
  16. Be bold to stay alone.
  17. Always set your heart on the divine.
  18. Your thoughts shape your reality. Watch your mindset — it becomes your life.
  19. Not everything deserves your reaction. Choose peace over being “right.”
  20. You don’t have to attend every argument you're invited to. Silence can be powerful.

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